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Posted: Apr 14th, 2019 - 12:17 pm In Reply to: My mom and my sister are forever fighting and I'm stuck in the middle. - Inthemiddle

I think your last sentence is the one I will address. "If I don't answer their calls, they will both take it personally." I say, don't answer the calls, and too bad if they take it personally. There is no goal post for you with these two. Danged if you do, danged if you don't when it comes to you. I know they're "blood," but it doesn't mean you have to get caught up in their sickness.

Remember, you have made yourself part of this dynamic, but you don't have to keep doing what you're doing.

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My mom and my sister are forever fighting and I'm stuck in the middle. - Inthemiddle (Views: 608, 2019-04-14, 11:32 am)
- Yikes - see msg
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- Phone Calls - sm (Views: 328, 2019-04-14, 6:50 pm)
- You need to cut them off immediately when either of them - starts complaining about the other (Views: 256, 2019-04-14, 8:23 pm)
  - Amen, Sister - MizzX (Views: 140, 2019-04-25, 5:51 am)
- Your Mother and Sister - Are Not Healthy (Views: 250, 2019-04-15, 7:57 am)
  - Not the - OP (Views: 264, 2019-04-16, 1:32 am)
- You may need to decide - sm (Views: 230, 2019-04-15, 9:14 am)
  - I Agree - Well Put (Views: 276, 2019-04-15, 3:39 pm)
- Wow - SM (Views: 195, 2019-04-19, 12:35 am)
- To OP - see msg (Views: 167, 2019-04-22, 7:38 pm)