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Help, I need advice please! - FamDamily

Posted: Apr 14th, 2018 - 10:45 am

Hello....I have been going out of my mind with worry over the last few days trying to figure out what, if anything, I can or should/should not do about a situation that has come up in my family.

The other day my husband was at one of the big hardware stores. As he came up an aisle he saw my daughter-in-law, my grandson, and a man he had never seen before. My daughter-in-law is married to my son and they are planning on fixing up their house and selling it. My daughter-in-law introduces the guy to my husband and says its their "contractor." That is an outright lie because first of all, they could never afford to hire a contractor, and secondly my son originally built that house from the ground up by himself from floors to ceiling. The man would not make eye contact with my husband and he said she was acting very nervous and suspicious.  They were looking at rope like for a boat or something. Why would you need rope like that for fixing up your house? 

My husband happens to work at this store and we went there yesterday to buy a paddle fan. We ran into a co-worker of his who was in the aisle working with my husband when my daughter-in-law was there. This co-worker told me without me asking that my daughter-in-law's eyes grew big and round and she acted very caught off guard. She described the man as being very handsome also and also said the man kept looking away or looking down at the floor while my husband was trying to converse with her and my grandson.

My daughter-in-law frequently (by this I mean all the time) is taking the kids to modeling shoots out of town in Miami or Tampa. There have been several shoots that I have seen pictures of where a tall handsome man is supposed to be "the father" of my grandsons in the shoot or video. I can't help but wonder if she may be having an affair with this guy. I am not about to tell my son, but this is really bothering me that she may be sneaking behind my son's back with another man, especially after all he does for her. He works full time, has to do all the housework, laundry, yardwork, take the kids to school, pick them up, etc. She does not work and won't lift a finger to cook or clean or grocery shop or do ANYTHING! The only thing she does is take these kids to modeling gigs all the time. 

If you were in my shoes what, if anything, would you do, or would you just try to pretend nothing is fishy? 


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