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Mediator vs get a lawyer

Posted: Feb 2, 2017

What do I do? Divorce is not what I wanted, I still love my husband. He walked away a year ago after saying he cheated and has no plans on coming back. He is paying all the bills, he spends some time with his daughters (18 and 11), but this weekend actually went in public with his you-know-what and her kids along with our youngest daughters. I've never felt more humiliated, hurt, angry, and worthless. I've already seen 2 lawyers, 1 of which is pushing mediation, the other was having serious issues of her own. This is hard as it is so I'm not sure which direction God wants me to take. I've been meditating and trying to listen to God's word, but I am so overwhelmed with my feelings over the whole thing. It sounds selfish to me, but I am asking for those who will to please pray for my strength and ability to make the best decision I can.

TIA

"Blessed at the peacemakers."

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divorce or not - Biblical

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In the Bible, the only reason for divorce is adultery, so in your case, divorce would be allowed biblically. Cheating brings all kinds of issues ranging from trust problems to disease, so you're probably better off now. That wasn't meant to be snide. I've been cheated on and it does hurt. If he's made it clear that he's not coming back and has moved on, then perhaps it's time for you to move on also. Allow yourself to heal. It doesn't have anything to do with him if you start getting used to a life without him and let your heart and mind recover. This would be done for your own benefit. Your own life would improve. It does take time, but you have to allow it. It'll also make things easier on your kids if they see you adjusting. Whether you forgive him or not is up to you, but life goes on and you should live your new life to the best of your ability. If you want any revenge, the sweetest form of revenge is living a wonderful life... without him.

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