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I just gave a very long (sorry) update on the 15 and 16-year-old teens below, then went upstairs to get a bite. While there, knowing my son was working on a class on-line downstairs and seeing his notebook out in the open, I took the opportunity to see if there were any new notes discussing Friday night. Well, there was and, unless they know I am snooping and are trying to drive me completely insane, they did go through with it in the short time they were in his room with the door shut. She said she did not think that he came (because of the interruption of my husband knocking and opening the door mentioned in the update below), but at least she is aware that that does not mean she cannot get pg. I guess she already has the bcp, because she said that she hopes that taking five of them will ensure she is not pg, and advised him that he needed to go ahead and get those other things (condoms), meaning that they did not use one. I am beside myself right now . . . I thought we had really had a great conversation, and he was much more talkative with me sat. and sun. than he has been in a long time. Really was feeling good about things.
To make matters worse, she had mentioned what a nice they were having by the river before their school friends showed up unexpectedly, but that she really did not mind because they brought some "really good green," which tells me that he has not stopped smoking pot and that she does it too (unless someone else can offer an explanation of what she might have meant). I could just cry . . . not because they did it, but because he is still lying to me, still smoking pot, and they did not protect themselves. I also now feel an even more urgent need to talk to her mom, but it will be an even harder conversation to have and I still feel like she may not believe it without the evidence, which goes back to the conundrum about where that will leave me in my relationship with my son. Thinking maybe we should buy a drug test kit to see if he is on drugs. Boo hoo. I really don't know what to do now . . . or what else to say.
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