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Posted: Oct 6th, 2019 - 1:31 pm In Reply to: I need advice please. - Mtgirl

you have every right to confront the brother yourself. I wouldn't rely on your husband. I would let your husband know that if he doesn't talk to him by the end of this week that you will and you very much should. Explain to him exactly what you said here.

"Look, we love you but we'd like to spend time together in our new home, just him and I. So, what are your plans on getting your own place?" I'd sure like to see you do better at your own place by the end of October, and if I were you, I'd start looking now so you can be all ready to go by then. When can I help you pack?"

Givers need to set limits because the takers never do.

You need to also "tell" your husband at this point, there's no more asking. It's come to the point where you've done your best and your feelings matter as well, not just his brother's.

Furthermore, wow, did he just go and get his kids and bring them back and no even ask if it's okay? That, to me, is kind of taking advantage of a good thing. So, now, not only is he invading on your privacy, he's brought more on to invade your privacy for the weekend? EEEKKK! I'd have to put my foot down, hurt feelings or not.

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