It's how willing you are to do what needs to be done? - Really, that's the key?

Posted: May 29th, 2019 - 3:51 pm In Reply to: To Devil's Advocate - me

So you're saying that, no matter what, this woman is not deserving of help through GoFundMe because, according to you, she has not been willing enough to do what needs to be done.

I have news for you. If you have availed yourself of any social programs, you HAVE been rescued by "others." Why did you allow yourself to get into that situation in the first place? It must have been because you were not willing to to do what needed to be done instead of expecting help from social programs. See how ridiculous your argument is? You are basing your whole philosophy on your own narrow experience and then making a universal judgment of who deserves help and what kind of help they deserve. Thank GOD that those services were there for you. Thank GOD for every good thing you have and quit patting yourself so hard on the back.

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