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Each woman has her own unique situation. - Each decision should be based on SM

Posted: Feb 10th, 2019 - 12:36 pm In Reply to: This is what late term abortion - Is for

what is best for her and her own life situation. Nobody'e else's business, nobody else will go what she's going thru and have to live her life and the results of her decision whatever it is.

What about some of us here; many of us are over 50 years old. Tubes tied years and years ago. Safely being sexually active without risk for years, and we have every right to do so.

Some quirk of fate, doctor did a sloppy job of surgery, the tubes become untied. Lo and behold, there's a baby. Now what?

Say it's me, like many of us. I'm over 50, working as an MT, the only job choice I have, not old enough yet for retirement, barely making minimum wage, could lose my job any day due to the fickle world of MT these days.

Are you all going to tell me that I still need to have that baby? Over 50 and baby with much higher risk of congenital anomalies, higher health risk for women our age range already with our own health problems.

Some people still going to throw stones, call names, guilt trip, curse me/us/her (whoever), and try to make us have that baby in that type of a situation.

If it were me, you dam well know I'm going to make the choice I want that's best for my life situation and pro lifers screaming "save that baby under any circumstances" can get stuffed.

***EDIT: and if I carried that baby to term and then gave it up for adoption, I'd face criticism for that as well. A woman can't really win no matter what the situation.

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This is what late term abortion - Is for (Views: 503, 2019-02-10, 9:13 am)
- That might be what it's for, but that's not how it is used - and don't kid yourself. This is the (Views: 203, 2019-02-10, 9:16 am)
  - Where is the proof? - I know (Views: 193, 2019-02-10, 9:43 am)
  - This is the typical, and effective, tactic used by the left, - which soon becomes forced acceptance. (Views: 230, 2019-02-10, 9:44 am)
  - Abortion now is done on a whim. THAT was supposed - to be only for the HEALTH of the mother (Views: 239, 2019-02-10, 11:30 am)
  - I think I read Hank Williams, Sr. had spina bifida. - nm (Views: 175, 2019-02-10, 12:49 pm)
- Can't we just say that not everyone is her? No matter - how much she tries to justify it, (Views: 238, 2019-02-10, 9:25 am)
  - This begs the question, how may people will do this if they - have a less than perfect baby? (Views: 184, 2019-02-10, 10:05 am)
    - Less than a year after losing our first baby to hypoplastic - left heart syndrome, I became pregnant (Views: 259, 2019-02-10, 11:52 am)
      - God bless you! - nm (Views: 222, 2019-02-10, 10:28 pm)
        Thank you, and you too. - nm (Views: 181, 2019-02-11, 2:52 am)
- So, the docs didn’t discover the problem until the baby - was almost born? If my parents had (Views: 213, 2019-02-10, 9:26 am)
  - 21 weeks is not "almost born" - nm (Views: 231, 2019-02-11, 1:21 pm)
- 21 weeks is the second trimester, during which therapeutic - abortions are legal in all states and (Views: 204, 2019-02-10, 9:38 am)
  - So, you prefer SNAP decision at 21 weeks - Sm (Views: 186, 2019-02-10, 9:46 am)
- This sounds like damage control. To blanket all abortions - with this legitimacy is just wrong. (Views: 200, 2019-02-10, 10:01 am)
- Trying to justify the rule by stating the exception is a - cheesy debate tactic. (Views: 181, 2019-02-10, 10:15 am)
  - Her story is what late-term abortion is for. - Calling her experience an exception is cheesy. (Views: 191, 2019-02-11, 1:25 pm)
- HuffPo, I dare you to publish this story. A woman who - survived abortion....she was targeted (Views: 217, 2019-02-10, 10:45 am)
- Meet Kolby. He underwent a life-changing surgery at - Ochsner Medical Center to correct (Views: 265, 2019-02-10, 11:28 am)
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  - I don't want to know the gory details of her abortion, or - sexual relations, or her vagina. (Views: 214, 2019-02-10, 12:52 pm)
    - vagina? - sm (Views: 248, 2019-02-11, 1:16 pm)
- Good to see there are a healthy number of critical comments - at the Huff Po article. (Views: 142, 2019-02-11, 10:39 am)