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Fiance's ex-wife is once again stirring up trouble. She called his parents to complain that we would not give her more money. His child support comes out of his paycheck. He also pays her twice a month for babysitting fees (his son is going into 7th grade). We found out he has not gone to a baby sitter last summer or this summer. She is using the money to go out and drink. We can't seem to scrape enough money to take her back to court. Fiance's parents ALWAYS back up the ex-wife. I have heard it's not about us but about "the boy." I COULD JUST SCREAM. He has not seen his dad since Christmas. His ex sees to that. I don't have any more emotiional strength to deal with this dysfunction. Living alone would be a lot less drama. Going to sit down tonight and tell him I do non want anymore mention of her name or his son in my space. His parents are coming up next month for a weekend and I already informed him that I dont think I can handle being around them. I feel like I have wasted time and energy when fiance does not feel the need to confront ex. I don't have a problem with the child being first but draw the line when the ex factors in. So sick of her trying to run our house as well as hers. I have asked him repeatedly NOT to share with her what goes on here. I am glad he is working 12 hours today so that I can think this out. the ex has been meddling for 7 years and I am FED UP. Can't figure out why she calls his parents instead of calling here. Where is the logic here?
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