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Posted: May 9, 2015

Dear Abby, 

  My husband is a liar and a cheat. He has cheated on me from the beginning, 
and, when I confront him, he denies everything. What's worse, 
everyone knows that he cheats on me. It is so humiliating. 
Also, since he lost his job 14 years ago, he hasn't even looked for a new one. 
All he does all day is smoke cigars, cruise around and
shoot the bull with his buddies, while I have to work to pay the bills. 
Since our daughter went away to college he doesn't even pretend to like me, and even hints that I may be a lesbian. 
What should I do? 

Signed: Clueless 

  


Dear Clueless: 

  Grow up and dump him. You don't need him anymore! Good grief woman, you're running for President of the United States. 

;

But I think she does need him. After all, he gives - $500,000 speeches to pay the bills.

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